It Can Be Difficult To Know How To Win Your Ex Back
If you find yourself suddenly alone, this can be very traumatic, and often will leave you reeling. You have a few drinks with friends to help get your mind off it, but then out of nowhere you suddenly find yourself drunk dialing. When you are in an emotional state, it is too easy to forget that you should never drink and dial. Often the things you do and say in this state are not
how to win your Ex back.
Why is it so difficult to have a healthy, long term relationship these days? Our hunter and gatherer ancestors had very specific male and female roles, with very few divorce lawyers. Is there a lesson we can learn there? Unfortunately, modern society has put us into a totally different picture, with very different circumstances.
Women’s rights have ironed (no pun intended) out many unfair situations that existed in the work place. This has helped ensure that women are not discriminated against when it comes to reward for effort. Roles and positions must be given to the most deserving, and not decided by what sex you are. However, when it comes to relationships, the needs of men and women are very different, and we need to make sure we fully understand what our needs are if we want to be happy in the long term.
- A woman’s core needs are very different to a man’s.
- ♥ She needs her man to be secure within himself. One who can “step up” and be her man in the relationship.
♥ She needs her man to be able to provide security, whether that be financially or emotionally.
♥ She needs to be attracted to his confidence, and in his ability to “lead” her in public.
♥ She needs to sense a connection that goes beyond “lust”. There need to be common interests and passions that will continue to stimulate her into the future.
Women will often try to bring out the sensitive side of a man. Without realizing it, she will try to make him more like a woman. But for a woman to feel secure in the relationship, what she needs is for her man to be a MAN.
Men, on the other hand, have quite different requirements to women. What a man needs to be more than anything, is to be a MAN. Any attempt to change this basic need will see him disappearing into the distance.
- A man will look for the following qualities in his woman.
- ♦ Loyalty. His woman must be dependable and be consistent in her actions.
♦ Support. He needs confirmation that his woman is on his side, and that she will support him in his choices.
♦ Consistency. She should not say one thing, and then do another.
♦ Trust. If he is on a short leash, he will feel that he is not trusted, and he will eventually rebel.
Our hunter and gatherer ancestors had the right balance. The alpha male was out spearing Mammoths (or wild animals at the least) to bring home the meat. These animals could smell fear. It was important that he kept his emotions hidden if he was to succeed. In those days, society forced them into their individual roles, and their core needs were met naturally.
In today’s society, we no longer have this same advantage, but we also cannot just assume that what makes me happy makes them happy. This is a big reason why we are having so many relationship break-ups. If you really want to know
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you must make the changes necessary to fulfill their needs. If you are prepared to make these changes, you are half way there. Get your hands on the Solution that goes further than just getting your Ex back. Learn how to be the person that your Ex will never want to leave again. One day you can be telling your grandchildren your story that you can end with “And they lived happily ever after”. and come back here to post your comments about it. I would love to hear your feedback.
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