In the hunter and gatherer days, many things were different to how they are today. Male and female roles are very different today, as are the divorce rates. If you find yourself separated and you want to win your ex back, what has been forgotten along the way?
Society has progressed in leaps and bounds when it comes to equality in the work place. Women have worked tremendously hard to receive their fair share when it comes to reward for effort. If a promotion comes up, the successful candidate should be the most deserving, and not decided by the sex. However, the emotional needs of men and women is a totally different story. For happiness to be maintained in a relationship, equality in the workplace needs to remain in the workplace.
At the core level, a woman has very different needs to a man.
To feel secure, she needs her man to also be secure about who he is. She needs him to be her “man”.
The woman needs her partner to provide security, on a financial level or an emotional level.
A mans confidence is very attractive to his lady. She wants her man to “lead” her in public places.
She needs to have interests and passions that are similar to his. The connection must be deeper than just lust. She wants to know that she will continue to be stimulated into the future.
A woman needs her man to be a MAN. Many women don’t realize this, and they feel they need to bring out the sensitive side of their man, to make him more like a woman.
A mans number one requirement is not based on what he needs his partner to be. A mans number one requirement is, to be a MAN. Any attempt to remove this from him will trigger his survival instincts and see him scuttle to safety.
If a man seeks a woman, these are the qualities he will look for.
Loyalty is very important. He must know that she will be consistent and dependable in her actions.
To support her man and his choices is very important. He needs confirmation that she will stand by his side.
Consistency is crucial. His lady should not say something, but then go and do something different.
He must feel trusted. If his lady keeps questioning him, he will soon lose this.
So, once upon a time it didn’t even occur to society what was needed for their happiness. Men needed to be men if they were to protect their family from wild animals. And the women felt like they had their “man”. It never occurred to them that they wanted their man to be more feminine. Today we don’t face the same dangers, and our lifestyle allows men and women to share many roles. However, we don’t realize that modern life is also robbing us of our core needs in a relationship, resulting in a growing number of relationship failures. Society should not have to change the progress that has been made in the workplace, but if you can be taught what your core needs are, you can begin to integrate them into your personal life, and to win your Ex back can be a reality.
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